It’s been almost nine months at my current part-time job. Time seems to be passing really fast lately as I grow older and it feels like I’ve only started working last month.
Working in the real world has taught me a lot of things. The reason why I used the word “real world” is because I want to amplify the fact that being a student in school and working outside is a totally different experience.

Some of my colleagues work a few times a week so that they can earn a little extra pocket money for themselves to buy the things they want. There are also some people who’re working so that they can have – not extra – pocket money.
I’m working because I don’t want to stretch out my hand and ask for money from my father. I don’t like that feeling somehow. I know his current capabilities, he doesn’t have enough. There was once when I got really pissed off with him over money matters.

Some people see me as a rich guy because I’m working. It’s true that I have a little more compared to those who’re getting their pocket money only from their parents. That’s why I have this “Heart Fund” set aside!
However, these people don’t see the time and energy used behind it. I’m working practically almost everyday and have no time for anything else – especially family.
Who’s the richer one? The one who has a little bit more money in the bank, or the one who gets to be at home and go out with their friends anytime they want?

There were many times when I wanted to visit my grandparents but didn’t because I either don’t have enough time or was already feeling too tired from work. Up till today, I only made it once and that’s it.
Ever since that day, my grandmother always call me up and asked me if I’m going over for dinner. She wants to see me and I would very much love to see her too.
But because I have to earn my own pocket money, I always have to say no to her.

I would say the people who gets to be at home and choose to go out anytime they want are the richer ones. Money doesn’t really make you happy.